Dear Annie:
I’m at my wits’ end, and I don’t know what to do anymore.
My neighbor’s dog barks constantly. I’m not exaggerating; this dog barks from early in the morning until late at night. Sometimes it’s a sharp, frantic bark every few seconds. Other times, it’s a low, rhythmic bark that just goes on and on. It happens whether someone’s outside or not. Rain, snow, sunshine — he barks. I’ve started tracking it out of desperation, and some days it’s eight to 10 hours of near-constant noise.
I’ve tried everything I can think of. I spoke to the neighbor kindly the first time, just to make them aware. I followed up weeks later, still politely, when nothing changed. They either dismiss it or say, “He’s just a dog.” I’ve tried sound machines, headphones, moving to the other side of the house — nothing makes a difference. I’ve even started avoiding being home during the day just to get some peace.
It’s wearing me down. I work from home, and the barking has made it nearly impossible to concentrate or have Zoom meetings. I’ve lost sleep.
At what point is this more than just a frustrating situation — and what can I realistically do next? I don’t want to be “that” neighbor, but I feel like I’m being held hostage by a dog that won’t stop barking and an owner who won’t take responsibility. — Going Bonkers Over Barking
Dear Going Bonkers Over Barking:
You’ve been more than patient, and your frustration is completely valid. Constant barking is not just annoying; it’s disruptive to your daily life and well-being.
You did the right thing by approaching your neighbor kindly, but since that hasn’t helped, it’s time to take the next step.
You might also write your neighbor a polite but firm note explaining how serious the issue has become. Let them know you’d rather resolve it peacefully but are prepared to escalate if necessary.
You’re not being petty; you’re advocating for your right to peace in your own home.
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